Why we lose out on the love of our lives.

This just struck my heart:hearts: and I felt what better way than to write it. I'm usually not a writer but I still think my pen can do a little magic.

No one knows who or how the perfect person will look like, we just hope but most times the perfect person is not the picture we have in our head. This mysterious person comes when we least expect it. The reasons for these are;

1) CONCENTRATING ON THE FUTURE.

At times like this, we're busy getting some shits together or making sure life's not kicking our ass. We're at the point of breaking and almost losing it, but this person shows up wanting to just buy a duplex in one's heart just like that but feels he/she is distracting you.

2) LOST HOPE.

At this point, you've probably been jilted like a hundred times or maybe just that your "one true love" and you feel all hope is lost. There's no better person in this life than that tall, dark, well built guy that left cos he felt another girl was better than you. Bitch give me a break, this happens to 1 in 2 girls.

3) RELIGIOUS/PERSONAL BELIEFS.

The point that kills our country as a whole. Being overly religious about everything is most likely going to get us killed someday (if not corona). I'm not saying you shouldn't believe in whatever God you serve but be logical as well. A guy walks up to you and you get talking. He's interested in you; the second you find out he's a Muslim or an Igbo guy you're turned off. O wrong mehn!

4) MESSING AROUND.

This is where a lot of us fall into like we can see this is quick sand but we still go ahead and enter. A lot of us feel our youthful life is when we get to explore different sizes and types of dicks and vaginas that ever exist and we end up turning that perfect one to a hit-and-run. Some do this cos of what they've been through, some just find themselves there while others are total jerks.

These are a few of them, is there a solution? Sincerely, I don't know; I'm just a kid who's also figuring his life out but one thing i know for sure is:

"The perfect one is who you least expect"

It's funny right, but what do I know?

Writer - Ilori Jesuloba