The Fantastic Four

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Expect the worst from everyone: I mean nobody is perfect no matter how hard we try to be. The effort to be perfect is important, not the success at it. Expect the worst from anyone at all and when it finally comes, you will not be in so much awe of it though the time and situation of events may change. You expected much more of the disappointment right, you should not be pained to your bone marrow then.

Love all, trust a few: you have to learn to trust at least few of the people you have unless you want to make life impossible for yourself. It's not actually stupid of you to have initially trusted someone who betrayed you, they are just untrustworthy to you not to everyone when you study them very well. You do know that trusting those few blindly is like you digging your own depression grave. They must show themselves worthy of your trust though it doesn't guarantee you against disloyalty from them.

Forgive easily: you expected the worst initially so why is it hard to forgive then? People do say "forgive and forget" but I tell you "forgive, do not forget but learn the lessons therein". Forgive so hard like you were hurt. It sounds very easy but putting it to action is the deal; you can do whatever it is that you put your mind into so make up your mind to forgive.

Live again: when all these processes seem to be on a journey of no return, remember to live again because it is just a cyclic movement that will be repeated in each person's life from time to time. It can only cease when one dies so you experiencing it means you're alive and not a walking corpse.

It is interesting to bring to your notice that you have read this now and will read or hear it later when this same event happens; it just continues.

Let's live happily irrespective of what happens. No stress😉